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Vanité
Guests are welcome between 20:00 and 22:30.
Please note: doors close promptly at 22:30.
The evening ends at 03:00.
Location
12th-century abbey in Hasselt
Info
A night where beauty tempts and desire unveils.
Beneath the vaulted ceiling of an ancient barn,
where candlelight shimmers like liquid gold,
you are seen, and slowly unmasked.
The sin that whispers through every mirror.
The hunger to be desired.
The intoxication of being seen.
This night celebrates the art of seduction in its purest form: a glimmer on skin, a breath against the neck, a look that lingers too long.
Where beauty carries no innocence, and desire needs no apology.
We open the new year with an extravagant experience.
February 7 · The Historic Abbey of Hasselt
Nestled within an awe-inspiring domain with over 800 years of history.
Dress code
At Vanité, appearance is more than attire, it’s an expression of confidence and desire.
Every element, from fabric to silhouette, should reflect elegance, intention, and the seductive power of self-admiration.
Ladies, welcome to Vanité.
Tonight, your vanity is not a sin… it’s a statement.
The Look
Adorn yourself with confidence and allure.
Choose lingerie that celebrates your beauty, bold, elegant, and unapologetically vain.
Let every detail reflect your power: silk that whispers, skin that glows, a look that knows it will be admired.
Tonight, vanity is not a sin. It’s your invitation to shine.
Permitted Colors
Choose your side | Team Classic Chic? Or Team Mysterious & Bold?
Classic & Chic
- Champagne gold | soft and luxurious, radiating confidence without a word.
- Pearl white or ivory | pure, yet laced with quiet seduction.
- Rosé gold or blush | feminine, elegant, and irresistibly subtle.
Mysterious & Bold
- Black | timeless, magnetic, and in control; a dance of shadow and contour.
- Deep bordeaux or wine red | passion and power intertwined, sensual and warm.
- Midnight blue | an elegant alternative to black, with a regal shimmer.
Accessorize
Let your vanity speak in every detail.
Seductive gloves, sheer stockings, soft bondage touches, shimmering jewels, feathered accents, or a daring headpiece, each one a promise of intrigue. Refined. Alluring. Unapologetically vain.
Approved Fabrics
Indulge in textures that seduce the senses. Lace, silk, tulle, nylon, and mesh add elegance and softness, while satin and velvet bring a rich, sultry touch. For the bold: leather or latex, powerful, provocative, and unapologetically vain. Choose fabrics that celebrate your confidence and invite admiration.
Shoes
Step into sexy, elegant heels, medium to high, with a minimum height of 5 cm. They should be classy, feminine, and add to your allure. No flats, boots (biker, western, or otherwise), sneakers, or ballet flats, this is a night of sophistication, not casual wear. Choose heels that you can wear comfortably all night, making you feel confident and irresistibly sensual.
What to Avoid
Please avoid see; through dresses, semi-dresses, (lingerie) robes (long or short), shirts, pants, skirts, or catsuits. This is a lingerie affair, so let your lingerie be the main focus of your look. Keep it sexy and seductive!
Style Inspiration
Enter a realm where confidence flirts with temptation.
Choose pieces that command attention; daring cuts, rich textures, and subtle shimmer against the skin.
Think of Maison Close, Honey Birdette, Lise Charmel, Livy, La Perla, Pluche Lingerie, or Agent Provocateur for inspiration: creations made to captivate, empower, and leave a trace long after the night is over.
Gentlemen, welcome to Vanité
Dress to impress, with confidence, sophistication, and a hint of self-adoration.
Tonight, your style is your signature. Every glance, every detail, a reflection of power and intent.
The Look
Step into the art of refined vanity. A tailored two- or three-piece suit is essential, timeless, masculine, and effortlessly seductive.
Your look should complement the sensual elegance of your partner, creating a magnetic balance of strength and desire.
Think allure, confidence, and quiet dominance, a man who knows he will be noticed.
Permitted Suit Colors
Coordinate with your lady’s chosen mood:
Team Classic Chic | embrace light sophistication.
- Ivory or off-white jacket with black trousers
- Light beige, sand, or soft grey
- Midnight blue for timeless refinement
Team Mysterious & Bold | channel darker seduction.
- Black velvet or deep charcoal
- Rich bordeaux or wine red
- Midnight blue or dark forest green for a luxurious edge
Shirts
Opt for shirts in classic, elegant tones, crisp white, soft ivory, light grey, or black for contrast.
Silk or satin textures add a subtle sheen that feels both refined and sensual.
Accessories
Vanity lives in the details. Add sleek cufflinks, a silk pocket square, or a velvet bow tie. A stylish watch and polished shoes complete your look.
Keep it sharp, confident, and slightly provocative, the kind of elegance that invites attention.
Shoes
Class is key, choose polished dress shoes like leather oxfords, patent derbies, or velvet loafers to elevate your look. Leave sneakers, sporty loafers with white soles, and casual shoes at home. This night is about style, not comfort. Wear what makes you feel powerful and refined from first step to last.
The Golden Rule
Your look should mirror her radiance.
Together, you embody the essence of Vanité, beauty, confidence, and temptation, perfectly aligned.
What to avoid
No jeans, T-shirts, linen shirts, sneakers, sporty loafers, caps, or bare torsos.
Casual or relaxed attire is not permitted. Shirts hanging loose or half-unbuttoned are not desired, every detail should reflect sophistication and intent. This is not a night for comfort, but for presence, confidence, and allure.
Style Inspiration
For timeless sophistication: Oger, Tom Ford, Armani, Boss, Ralph Lauren, Sandro, Good Manners, The Society Shop, Cavaliere, Dolce & Gabbana.
Gentlemen, this is your moment to embody elegance and power.
At Vanité, vanity isn’t a flaw, it’s your finest accessory.
While 99% of our guests show up looking absolutely stunning and perfectly on point, there are times when someone misses the mark. That’s when our dress code inspectors will step in, because we want everyone to contribute to the magic of the evening.
We'll be stricter than ever before. So consider this your friendly heads-up: forewarned is forearmed!
