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Soirée d’Or

21.03.2026
Happening in 23 days

Entrance between 20:00 and 23.00

Event ends at 03:00


Location

Exclusive castle, near Hasselt (Belgium)


This remarkable location carries a rich history. The preserved tower remains of the medieval castle, along with the 17th-century manor farm, the gatehouse, the stables, and the barn, make this site a true official monument. Its timeless charm and grandeur create the perfect setting for an unforgettable evening.


This intimate yet spacious castle is designed for discovery, luxury, and unforgettable moments: wander through mysterious chambers on the upper floor, uncover hidden corners, and let your curiosity guide you; be awestruck by the jaw-dropping main area that perfectly blends history with elegance; and, if you dare, see if you can uncover the secret extra area hidden somewhere within the castle walls.

Info

Soirée d’Or | The First Bloom

On March 21st, the first day of spring, Soirée d’Or returns with its very first Gold Member event of the year.

The setting is exceptional: an exclusive castle near Hasselt, rarely opened for gatherings of this kind. A place defined by space, silence, and history, transformed for one carefully curated night.

Three hundred Gold Members will come together inside these walls. An intimate scale, a refined crowd, and one of our most extraordinary locations to date. Charged, elegant, and unmistakably Soirée d’Or.

This night invites you to choose your energy:

Team Bold
High-end kink with intention.
Latex, leather, lacquer. Sculpted silhouettes, elegant cuffs, refined restraint. Powerful, daring, and impeccably styled.

Team Romantic
Timeless sensual elegance.
Lace, silk, feathers. Pearls, diamonds, garters. Soft, luxurious, and irresistibly seductive.

Two expressions of desire. One castle. One night where contrast becomes chemistry.

Expect the unexpected. Carefully staged moments, subtle provocations, and an atmosphere that unfolds layer by layer. A night shaped as much by what happens as by who is present.


This is more than an event. It is the opening chapter of a new season. A first bloom. A golden return. Welcome to Soirée d’Or.


Dress code

This night marks the beginning of a new season. A moment of awakening, where desire stirs, energy shifts, and something new comes to life. Fresh, sensual, and full of promise.

Ladies will shine in bold or romantic, luxurious lingerie.
Gents will complete the look with a sophisticated, sharp suit


Dress code Ladies

The Look
Tonight, you choose your expression.

Will you embody Team Bold, with a confident, edgy presence? Or do you step into Team Sensual Spring, soft, luminous, and irresistibly feminine?

Choose a look that feels true to you. Something that lets your inner energy shine effortlessly. This is about seduction through authenticity.


Permitted Colors
Team Bold: Bold black. Strong, striking, unapologetic.

Team Sensual Spring: Soft spring tones: blush pink, lavender, light blue, fresh green, warm peach, or pure white. Fresh, delicate, and sensual.


Accessories
Team Bold: A refined nod to kink. Keep it chic and intentional. Think a delicate whip, an elegant choker, sculptural suspenders, or subtle cuffs. Powerful accents without going over the top. This is not a fetish event, it is about suggestion and style.

Team Sensual Spring: Romantic details take center stage. Flowers, feathers, lace stockings, silk gloves. Pearls, diamonds, and delicate jewelry that catch the light. This is your moment to elevate softness into seduction.

Approved Fabrics
Team Bold: Lacquer, latex, leather. Structured, sculpted, and confident. Always styled in a refined, high-end way.

Team Sensual Spring: Lace, silk, tulle, nylon, mesh. Satin and velvet are also welcome. Soft, flowing fabrics that move with you and enhance elegance and sensuality.

Shoes
Elegant heels are a must. Medium to high, with a minimum height of 5 cm. Feminine, classy, and suitable for the entire night. No flats, sneakers, boots, or casual footwear. Changing to flats later on the evening is not allowed. 

Not permitted
Please avoid sheer dresses, semi-dresses, lingerie wrap skirts, (lingerie) robes, shirts, pants, or catsuits. This is a lingerie affair. Sexy, intentional, and refined.

Style Inspiration

For the Kinky look: Go bold with Fräulein Kink, Marie Mur, Maison Close, Voyeur X, or similar brands that bring provocative, chic, and daring details.

For the Romantic lookOpt for soft, elegant pieces from Agent Provocateur, Honey Birdette, Couture de Nuit, Lise Charmel, Aubade, or La Perla. Store suggestion: Pluche LingerieSensual Minded

Dress code Gents

Gentlemen, this is not just another night. It is Soirée d’Or. A carefully curated evening of elegance, desire, and understated power. Your lady will shine in Romantic or Bold luxurious lingerie. Your role is clear: match her presence with precision, confidence, and impeccable style.


The Look
Sharp. Tailored. Intentional. Choose a perfectly fitted two- or three-piece suit that reflects confidence and control. Clean lines, refined fabrics, and a silhouette that commands the room.


Permitted Suit Colors
Coordinate with your lady’s chosen energy, Bold or Romantic.
Black, white, and shades of grey, from light to deep charcoal, are all appropriate.


Shirt Colors

Classic and refined. White, black, or grey are preferred. A subtle accent of soft spring colors is allowed when styled with restraint.

Accessories
Details define distinction. Suspenders, a refined pocket square, elegant cufflinks, or a tasteful watch elevate the look. A subtle daring touch is welcome, confidence is the ultimate accessory

Shoes
Polished, classy dress shoes only. No sneakers, sporty loafers or casual shoes. Take notice: semi-formal shoes with white soles are not permitted.


Dress Code Enforcement
We will be strictly enforcing the gentlemen’s dress code. A sharp suit means exactly that. Shirts remain properly closed, no deep open collars. Your jacket may come off if the evening warms up, but your bow tie or tie stays on. The look must remain polished from arrival to departure. This evening calls for discipline in style. Keep it sharp. Keep it elegant. Keep it intentional.


The Golden Rule
Your outfit should complement your lady’s lingerie look seamlessly. Together, you present as one refined, powerful presence.


Leave These at Home

Jeans, t-shirts, linen shirts, caps, casual wear, or bare torsos. This is an evening of sophistication. Dress accordingly.


Style Inspiration

For guidance, look to refined menswear houses such as Oger, Tom Ford, Armani, Dolce & Gabbana, Ralph Lauren, Boss, Sandro, Cavaliere, The Society Shop, or Good Manners.


Gentlemen, this is your moment to show taste, restraint, and confidence. Suit up. Make it count.

Important guidelines
Dress Code Inspection
At Caviar de la Nuit events, our designated dress code inspectors will be present throughout the evening to ensure that all guests adhere to the specified dress code. Their role is to maintain the elegant and cohesive atmosphere that makes our events so special.

While 99% of our guests show up looking absolutely stunning and perfectly on point, there are times when someone misses the mark. That’s when our dress code inspectors will step in, because we want everyone to contribute to the magic of the evening.

We'll be stricter than ever before. So consider this your friendly heads-up: forewarned is forearmed!
Event Admission Policy
Guests who do not meet the dress code requirements will unfortunately not be allowed to enter. This policy is in place to maintain the enchanting, stylish atmosphere that makes our events truly unforgettable.
Changing Outfits
Feel free to change outfits during the evening if you like—whether for comfort or style. However, the dress code rules remain in effect all night long. No exceptions!
Review the Guidelines
To ensure a smooth entrance and avoid any last-minute surprises, please review the dress code guidelines carefully. Make sure your attire aligns with the theme so you can fully immerse yourself in the luxurious and magical experience we've prepared for you.
Looking your best means feeling your best, and we can't wait to see you shine! ✨
Waitinglist
Are you sure you want to be added on the waiting list for Soirée d’Or ?
When a spot becomes available and you are the first in line, we will contact you directly.

Please note: this is a dynamic waiting list. Your position depends on your membership level. If another member upgrades or downgrades their membership, your spot on the list may shift up or down.

Rest assured: the waiting list is handled fairly and in the correct order, always based on membership tier and time of registration

Waitinglist
Are you sure you want to be removed from the waiting list for Soirée d’Or ?
You will abandon your spot on the list.